To the boy who broke her heart...

Before I begin, this is just a general post, that's not necessarily me or anyone else for that matter. I just feel as if many people can relate to this post so here I am writing it.

To the boy who broke her heart; I hope you're doing good, I hope you've found someone else that treated you like she did, I hope you're happy with who you are and what you did. Because in reality, you broke her mentally and emotionally. You made her think that you loved her. You made her happy 24/7 by just being there with her. You made her see the world as a beautiful and wonderful place. You made her the happiest person in the world, all while slowly destroying her. You fooled her with your smooth words. You made her dependent on you because she thought you would always be there for her. You made her blind of your flaws by the way you covered everything up. You made her lose her trust in everyone because she told you everything and you let her down. I really hope you're happy. Because now she's thanking you with sincerity in her heart. Why you my ask? Because even though you broke her, she will now learn to not be dependent on anyone, she will learn how to keep her guard up so she won't get hurt again, she will learn to love herself again because she will soon realize she's better than your stereotypical standards. She will realize who you really were all along. She will realize that she made a huge mistake, but it has helped her learn who she is. It'll help her become who she will be in the future. She's not like any other girls, she loved you. She cared about you. Sure, she was "clingy" and "controlling" but that's because she cared with all of her heart. Anyone and everything that's made her happy has always left her, just like you did. You've taught her many important lessons. You've taught her to always keep her guard up. You've taught her to not fall in love so fast and so soon. You've taught her to not just trust anyone. You've also taught her to not let anything or anyone to be in control of her happiness. But most importantly, you've taught her how to love herself without your help (or anyone's for that matter). I hope you're happy with someone else because honestly, there will be no one like her. She's one of a kind. She loved you more than anyone would. She cared about you more than anyone ever would dream of. She had your back 24/7. She was there when you couldn't sleep. She was there when you were having a bad day. She would always get so happy when you were around that she was blind to what was actually going on. She trusted you with everything. She kept coming back mistake after mistake. She apologized for every single thing, even if it wasn't her fault, but you sure did always make her think it was. You always made her scared of who she was hanging out with because you didn't approve of her best friend. You made her scared with every step she would take because she was scared you would get mad at her. She was even scared to be around her family, because you would always get jealous when she would cancel plans with you for her family. You would even get mad at her when she didn't answer her phone and you just automatically assumed she was cheating. But thank you, thank you for making her who she is now. Because now she's a strong, beautiful, independent woman who knows what she wants with her life.She's with a new boy who's going to treat her better than you would've her thought of. Oh wait, now you realized what you lost and you want her back? Oh so, you swear you'll change? So now, you promise you just overreacted about everything and you realize what you lost? Well, as I said before, I hope you're happy now. Congratulations! You've lost the best thing that was ever yours. Why? Because you took her for granted. Hope you're happy.

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